Thursday 28 February 2013

Flowers

She used to buy herself flowers a lot. “To cheer herself up”, she would say. Lots of flowers, even when we had very little money. Her need - to “cheer herself up”: my knowing that they were paid for with money we did not have; funny money, scary money, plastic money, money that becomes septic money; or if she was being “good”, not being reckless, not using borrowed money, not “just going for it”, then with money needed for basic stuff. Later we would be short of stuff that mattered, essentials, stuff that must be got, that had to be paid for come what may – a spending vacuum into which, like a black hole, what little I had would be remorselessly drawn. But, hell, she so needed the “cheering up”. She'd spend on the flowers. Later I would reach into my pocket for the dog's food.

Take a living thing, cut off its root, its connection with earth, that which nurtures and sustains it, its means of survival and the substance of its being. Put it in a jug and watch it die. 

She always bought flowers, no matter how poor we were. I watched them die. 

“Can't you see they are dead”, she would say, “Why haven't you thrown them out? Do I have to do everything? Why can't you look after things properly? It would not have taken much effort to have noticed. You never notice. All these dead flowers everywhere. Always left. You just don't care.”


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